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THE HOUSE OF TANTRA

THE ONLINE TANTRIC COMMUNITY FOR MEN WHO LOVE MEN

SOMETIMES THE GAY WORLD SUCKS ASS
(AND NOT IN A GOOD WAY)

  • You're an intuitive, open hearted man, and you can see...

  • You see that the gay world is becoming more sexualised, yet less connected.

  • You are fed up with sex being used as a form of currency and validation, and you're seeking connections that aren't just fun and fleeting, but are meaningful and nourishing.  

  • You long for relationships with like-minded men who want to go deeper into heart, spirit and the true connective power of sex & intimacy.

  • You yearn for some (or even all!) of this, yet it almost feels impossible to explore this with anyone. â€‹

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IMAGINE: INSTEAD OF OPENING UP YET ANOTHER TWITTER OR REDDIT FULL OF FACELESS DICK PICS YOU COME BACK TO A COMMUNITY
OF MEN WHO KNOW YOU, LIKE YOU & WANT TO LEARN WITH YOU IN SHARED TANTRIC EXPERIENCES.

House of Tantra (Also known as HoT. Yes, we like the acronym too!)

is a way for same-sex attracted men to create the sort of community many men have been looking for but have never quite found.

 

HoT gives same-sex attracted men the opportunity to build meaningful connections through sharing and learning together within the framework of Tantra, not just through online classes and workshops, but with conversations and exchanges with like-minded men.

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Many people think of Tantra as a way to improve sex. It can certainly help with that, including the multi-orgasmic techniques Wolf teaches inside HoT.  Tantra is a complete mind/body/spirit practice. If you’re looking to find friendships, deepen intimacy, & enhance your personal growth and spirituality, House of Tantra welcomes you. â€‹

From emotionally distant men to eye-opening experiences

"Since joining I have learned about new aspects of my own sexuality and desires and re-connected to my spirit-self. Sharing stories and workshops and the resulting developments with a group of friendly and open minded guys from all over, was really eye-opening and in sharp contrast to the bland or emotionally-distanced attitudes most men around me usually express. Thank you HoT and thank you brothers!"  - Thoron, Germany
(Thoron joined the House of Tantra in Nov 2024)

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"...like letting go of stress after a long day"

"Now that I've been in the House of Tantra for over a year it feels so familiar. I look forward to joining the workshops, it feels like the place I can let go of the stress of the week, and all the bullshit in the world and hang out with friends and be in my body" (Igor Joined Intake One in Sept 2024). 

WHAT ARE THE BENEFITS OF HOUSE OF 
TANTRA?

connect with your body & pleasure

START OR ENHANCE A MEDITATION PRACTICE

INCREASE SELF MASTERY

connect with others

CREATE YOUR OWN TANTRIC JOURNEY

Meet Your Facilitators

Andreas and Wolf are qualified and experienced practitioners who have been working with men in the area of sexuality, intimacy and tantric practices for many years. Both have developed their own material online blending Eastern and Western practices. 

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ANDREAS

Andreas is a certified Self Pleasure Facilitator through The Somatic Sex Educators Association of Australasia, and an advanced 500 hr registered yoga teacher through Yoga Australia. He discovered tantra as part of his own personal healing journey to address the shame, lack of safety and disconnection he felt to his sexuality,  gay sex and intimacy.

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WOLF

Wolf has been teaching men and practicing Tantra for over twenty-five years through individual training, online courses and workshops. He incorporates shamanic trance, nature connection, lucid dreaming, and qi gong into his practice, both personally and professionally. He holds a Post Graduate Diploma degree in Sexual Health.

ARE YOU READY TO EXPERIENCE DEEPER INTIMATE CONNECTION & COMMUNITY?

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HOW YOUR TANTRIC JOURNEY BEGINS

We've learnt over the last couple of years hosting our men's community, that the best way of stepping into the tantric world is to be supported with 1-1 tantric facilitation combined with group workshops. Learn how we do things in the House of Tantra that helps you have the best experience. 

3 Private sessions with tantric leaders

  • Your investment includes 3 private 60 minute sessions with either Andreas or Wolf. 

  • You will be guided in tantric fundamentals. You will learn about the energy body and connect to it with guided gentle erotic practice to gain comfortability and confidence. 

  • You can share your own experiences in a safe 1-1 guided context where nothing is off-limits, all sexual worries & deep desires are welcome. 

IMMEDIATE ACCESS TO GROUP WORKSHOPS & ONLINE COMMUNITY

  • Upon joining you will be welcomed into our online forum (on Discord) where you will be able to chat with the other guys in the House of Tantra, gain connections and share more about your own journey that brought you here.  

  • You immediately gain access to all clothed workshops. The House of Tantra offers at least 2 group tantric workshops every month with bonus workshops and gatherings. 

EXPAND ACCESS OVER TIME

  • Following the completion of 3 private sessions, and 4 clothed group workshops, you will be given access to all House of Tantra workshops which includes naked workshops and those with explicit erotic practice. 

  • We do this so that it feels natural to enter these advanced workshops, knowing all the brothers that will be in the experience with you. This creates companionship and comfortability to be vulnerable, connected and gain the most out of these group experiences. By the time you enter them it will feel natural and easeful. 

WHAT's INCLUDED

  • 6 months access to the House of Tantra Community 

  • 3 private sessions with Tantric leaders

  • Minimum 2 group workshops a month

The House of Tantra - Upfront Payment

$449

449

Listed in $AUD

3x Private Sessions (60 minutes)

6 Months Access to HoT Community & Group Workshops

Minimum 2x Group Workshops A Month

Full Access to HoT Online Forum & Chat

Discounted Additional Private Sessions with Andreas or Wolf

Access to Alumni Subscription Pricing following 6 months

The House of Tantra - Payment Plan

$224.50

224.50

Every 6 weeks

Split your program investment into two payments. Listed in $AUD.

3x Private Sessions (60 minutes)

6 Months Access to HoT Community & Group Workshops

Minimum 2x Group Workshops a Month

Full Access to HoT Online Forum & Chat

Discounted additional Private sessions with Andreas or Wolf

Access to Alumni Subscription pricing following 6 months

UPFRONT OR PAYMENT PLANS

THE HOUSE OF TANTRA

THE ALUMNI
BROTHERS

At the completion of your 6 month journey with us, you will be invited to join the House of Tantra ‘ Alumni Brothers’: a group of dedicated alumni who have been exploring Tantra together for a longer time. 

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The Alumni Brotherhood is based on a subscription, stay as long as you want. Monthly & 3 Monthly subscription options designed to be affordable and easily integrated into your life. 

 

Learn more in the FAQ

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FOR GBTQ+ & CURIOUS
MEN OF ALL AGES 18+

"I had no idea when I signed up to House of Tantra that it would make such a difference to so many aspects of my life. As an older gay man I value my ongoing sexual self, albeit calmer and much changed since my younger days. Learning to experience and appreciate this in a more holistic way, diffused throughout my body and thinking, has been central to my experience with Wolf and Andreas and their gentle guidance through the core principles of Tantra. To even begin the journey of embracing a more thoughtful and “spiritual” vision of my sexuality with these trustworthy guides, and such a supportive and lovely group of men, is treasure indeed."
Sean, Australia (Sean joined the House of Tantra Sept 2024, Intake One)

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"I BECAME MORE COMFORTABLE WITH MY BODY & GAY SEX"

"When I first joined HOT, I had no idea what to expect, but I was looking forward to learning innovative ideas and feelings. It has turned out to be an incredibly enriching and enjoyable experience. I have gained so much added information about our emotions, spiritual side, and sexuality. This experience has helped me emotionally cope better with life’s challenges and become more comfortable with my body and gay sex.

Andreas and Wolf are expert teachers and kind facilitators. The variety of topics covered and the mix of physical and intellectual activities in the program, along with the incredibly supportive brothers in the group, make me look forward to each session". 

- Neil, Australia (Neil joined the House of Tantra in Sept 2024, Intake One). 

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LEARN MORE ABOUT TANTRA FOR GAY, BI & CURIOUS MEN...

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START YOUR INITIATION FOUNDATIONS & WORK YOUR WAY UP TO DEEPER WORKSHOPS OVER TIME...

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The Benefits of Online Classes

We know that men like to share in a physical space together. But after running many workshops and classes, we also know there are draw backs. Being in a room with a bunch of men practicing tantric techniques together can be fun, but it can also be overwhelming and even distracting. It's also challenging to get the same men together again, meaning the intimacy and connection that was established is lost. 

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Online sessions are:

  • Easy to access. Login at the start time with no travel required

  • More relaxed, with less social,  body and performance anxiety

  • Comfortable and safe in your own home

  • Generally lower cost than face to face sessions​

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While online sessions have advantages, we know you want to make this relevant in the ‘real world.’ We encourage men to take what they have learnt and apply it in their relationships and overall life. In the future, we plan to run to face to face sessions with men who have bonded together online through HoT.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

WHAT IS THE TIME COMMITMENT? 

WHAT PLATFORM IS THE House of tantra HOSTED ON?

WHAT TIME ARE THE SESSIONS? What about holiday breaks? 

IS THIS SUITABLE FOR COUPLES? 

WHAT ARE THE PAYMENT TERMS & REFUND POLICY?

WHAT ABOUT PRIVACY, NUDITY & SESSION RECORDING? 

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